A woman needs to be disciplined on a regular basis. If not, she will make your life hell. The easiest, the quickest way to instill a regimen of discipline is through spanking. Yes, spank her, and spank her often. You should give her a good spanking no less than once a week, and, if she is particularly unruly, at least once a day. You should spank her hard enough that her ass cheeks turn red, and she begs you to stop. You need to show her that you are in control, the dominant one; if you don’t, she will end up having contempt for you, and secretly desire the sperm of a stronger man. She may even find this alpha sperm, while you cluelessly continue to submit to her unpredictable, unruly feminine emotions and eventually raise a child who is secretly not even yours.
What most men don’t understand is that women want feral men. They may end up marrying the beta providers, but they will always desire the superior sperm of the more dominant male. This is the essence of all of nature, and humans are not immune. In order to ensure the possibility of the best gene pool, the female sex of all species wants to be impregnated by the most potent male, and the most potent males are often, if not usually, those who are the most difficult to domesticate. The caveman lurks deep within our psyches, and women always, if not admittedly then at least secretly, desire the strength, the sperm and the cock of the caveman.
Yet society has its norms, rules and regulations: money, homes, mortgages, financial and social stability, etc., these are the things that also ensure the survival and success of one’s offspring. The caveman tends not to be good at these skills. He wants to conquer, to fuck, and to move on to the next conquest. The caveman wants to be out in the world, exploring and discovering, and he craves his freedom; the beta provider is happy to stay at home and act like the pussy is some Tide commercial .
Still, it is not impossible for the caveman to find married happiness. It can happen. But it is rare to find a man who can both master the inner ferocity of his primitive being, while at the same time maintaining a stable and strong household for his wife and children. If he can do this, without losing his dominance, he can achieve a happy married life. This takes the consent of a woman who desires to be given over to a powerful man. It also takes the natural inclination of the right man. Such personalities cannot be faked. You either have it or you don’t.
But he must always remember this first principle: spank her, spank her often, and spank her hard.
Then fuck her brains out and she will love you even more.
I enjoy a more subtle command, one my husband can project to me with just his eyes. That doesn’t mean I never got spanked though.
“…the female sex of all species wants to be impregnated by the most potent male, and the most potent males are often, if not usually, those who are the most difficult to domesticate…”
Very true. One moment he snuggles me in bed, nine months later, our kids have a half sibling.
Racer X said:
Yes, different women have different likes and dislikes in this area; some more subtle, such as yourself, others more upfront and primal. It is good though that you have at least on occasion gotten spanked; even a nice woman like yourself needs to good spanking every now and then.
I like to be be spanked hard. I mean something just stirs up through me to want and will myself to want it hard enough to until I am crying. I mean bawling and getting that carthatic release.
So I like to be spanked until the agony is so much that you want to bite straight through the pillow and into your bottom lip. Until kicking and screaming and crying for real. The thing is I have a very high pain tolerance. There is just something inside me that gets turned on by willingly giving up control and get a really a real blistering until I am sobbing from my boyfriend.
Last time my boyfriend paddle me the flat part of the handle of bamboo backsctratcher he got from the dollar store. Put me over his knee after I pushed everything down to my knees. It wasn’t thudy like a paddle but I mean it stung like all get out and it was light enough that he was able to really whale hard and fast for a really long time bare ass without bruising. I got welts all over but after a very long flurry set until I was hiccup crying, it was such a release and created bonding with him as I cried it all out.
He also likes me to do that post spanking dance hoping up and down rubbing my ass after he lets me up. I do intentional because he gets turned by it.
I am just weird I guess. Anyone one else likes really hard spankings like I do?
Racer X said:
Thanks for the comment. No, there is nothing weird about you. From my experiences, a good hard spanking is something that many, many girls secretly enjoy. It is probably one of those things that few would admit, even to their friends, but in the presence of a strong lover they are more than willing to engage in such delights.
I wish I had this… Its even worse when your with a beta who keeps asking what you want and when you finally tell him…He tried to act it out . it goes horribly wrong….
Racer X said:
Yes, your lament is one shared by many women, trust me. Woman often choose the stability of a good beta, but he is usually a dud in bed. There are few things worse sexually than trying and pretending to be dominant, but failing miserably.
I get so turned on giving my girlfriend all kinds of spankings, from erotic to just because spanking and even real ones that make her loss her composure, cry and sob. I see it as a gift of submission she gives me. Fortunately, I have a girlfriend who likes it also. She actually turned me on to it and brought out the spanko in me. Is it wrong to admit that I enjoy it? I get so turned on as I watch take her pants down knowing that she has given me full permission to spank her or sometime give her a real one. I have conflicting emotions inside. I don’t like woman who are abused but I like spanking my girlfriend now. Its like is a psychological afrodeysic to me. I love the control aspect, its like asking me to discipline her is the ultimate sign of respect and I feel honored she choose me to have that authority. The actual spanking is exciting to me also. I mean when I turn her over my knee and it completely consensual I feel so stimulated by the whole experience. Seeing her beautiful bare bottom in front of me knowing she expecting me to spank her and sometimes until she is crying hysterically is huge rush. Is it wrong to feel good about having that authority and power she gave me. I also really get turned on when I start to spank her usually start out with my hand to start with. I am so stimulated when I see her clench up tight and I see all the muscular definition of her butt cheecks. It is electifying for me to hear her react and I feel compelled to smack harder and faster. If it’s a real discipline style spanking it takes a lot because Jill has a very high pain tollerence. So I have to spanked hard, fast lengthy and no warmup with my office belts or something like a thin durable wooden paddle that won’t break. To see her feet fluttering and her ass cheecks are turning red to bright red, its like I go into a trance in my mind. The longer the spanking goes on the more I get turned on and I am not sure if I should feel guilty of that or not? I have never seen her do the post spanking hop that some described (pushing hips forward, frantically rubbing her, arching her back up straight and hoping up and down) that I have read about but I might bring that up to my Jill. I usually use my belt over my knee for discipline and I feel the powerful sense of power and authority as I began removing it and I feel extremely respected by Jill as she begins dropping her pants when I order her too. Is something wrong with me that after experienced spanking someone that I discovered that I really like it myself?