I just returned from a small trip to a wonderful place, a tropical place of sunny skies, warm beaches, turquoise oceans, swaying palm trees, and countless beautiful women. I felt I was in paradise. Now, as I return to a more normal life of daily labors, my mind is filled with the delightful images and memories of sensuous beauty. Does anyone ever notice how the mind continues to be absorbed in the world that the body had just inhabited, even though we may have left that environment? It takes a day or two to readjust from different surroundings.
There was a great deal of sexual freedom in my travels. The places I visited were much more open to sexual diversity and erotic explorations than the more stolid worlds of the old Northeastern US. I found this liberating. It sometimes amazes me how different certain areas of the United States are. The tropics in particular are conducive to sexual freedom and open sensuality. Female beauty and the tropics are a perfect mix.
Feminine beauty is the intoxicating elixir of the male mind. It was nice to be in area where beautiful women abounded. Every restaurant, every bar, every small little store, seemed to have its fill of wonderfully lovely beauties. Warm sunshine and tropical breezes seem to ensure a sense of loveliness.
There was one waitress at a nice happy hour lounge I attended…she was hot, a bit older but experienced. I felt the attraction and after a few pina coladas and some flirting, we eventually got together later that night. Her bedroom skills were even more delightful. Spending the night with a woman who is experienced, who loves to fuck, who is not inhibited sexually and who desires to experience the most intense pleasures two people can share, is always a worthwhile endeavor. I have often sung the praises of older women and one of the praises I have sung is their lessened sense of shame and modesty. Younger girls may have the bodies, yes, but they are often basket cases of insecurities and silly psychological shit tests. Often the effort you put into bedding them is not worth the return sexually. They tend to be worried about their reputations, unhappy with their bodies, afraid to experiment, and just plain inexperienced. Most are still trapped in the silly fantasy of a future monogamy with that special “one” that Western society is unfortunately still advocating. But a woman over thirty, who has perhaps been married, has fucked different guys, who knows her body and is unafraid to explore, who is not worried about what all her friends may think or how her present behaviors may effect her future prospects of the happy, idealized marriage, and who is attractive to boot, can be an incredibly intense sexual partner. They love and know how to fuck. And they are mature enough to understand the realities of life and relationships. And, to quote Ben Franklin on the pleasures of older women, “they are so grateful.”
We fucked all night long in this land of exotic pleasures, this world of sexual freedom. We both came many times. And when the sun rose the next morning and the palm trees began to once again display their soft green luxuriousness, we fucked some more. It was a lovely time. Oh yes, I love this land of endless pleasures and beautiful women. I love the sensuality of the tropics.
zorroprimo said:
Dude. I seriously LOVE your blog and am a huge supporter, but I must ask:
Where are you getting all these bush shots? It’s like it’s 1970 again and nobody owns a razor.
Not complaining. Again, a big fan. Just kinda curious.
Butterfly Flower said:
I have often sung the praises of older women and one of the praises I have sung is their lessened sense of shame and modesty. Younger girls may have the bodies, yes, but they are often basket cases of insecurities and silly psychological shit tests. Often the effort you put into bedding them is not worth the return sexually. They tend to be worried about their reputations, unhappy with their bodies, afraid to experiment, and just plain inexperienced
You speak the truth.
If I’m already my sexual peak [I’m 20], then men must have a strange definition of good sex. I’m insecure, shy, clueless to my own desires – my fiance will have his work cut out for him on our wedding night.
PS: thank you for linking to my blog! I linked back [I gave your blog a NSFW warning 😉 ]
Racer X said:
Zorro,
Thanks. I get these photos from different sites usually dedicated to older erotic photos. The bush was a common feature of older erotic photos. As a huge fan of the bush, I enjoy posting them. I would like to see the bush make a comeback, at least in part.
Butterfly,
Thanks and no problem. I am happy to link to your blog. And as far as your sexual peak, you will probably be amazed at how much more comfortably sexual you are in ten years!
Butterfly Flower said:
Thanks and no problem. I am happy to link to your blog.
I wrote a new post you might like.
A fundie Catholic railed against Victoria’s Secret and sexy undies; I couldn’t help but fisk.
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Brandon said:
I have followed your blog for a while, and I must say (despite the pretty pictures) I find your worldview profoundly depressing. Something like an amateur mixture of De Sade and Marcuse. Believe it or not, there are some of us men out their who are completely healthy (and with a healthy sex drive) who value monogamy and would love to have just one woman for all time. The fact that current forces militate against this does not mean that we are spineless, clueless betas or sexually repressed theocrats or such (although I’m afraid you would characterize us as such). I know I would prefer to have just one woman to focus my sexual energy on so I could spend my time working on other projects (I’m an artist).
Also, you seem to appear a bit sociopathic when it comes to love. SEX trumps all for you. Everything you post is clouded by something sexual. You are as obsessed by your love of sex as those fundamentalists you so often criticize are by their hate of it. A bit of perspective would be nice: Sex is good, great, and wonderful, Racer, but it is not a Religion as such. The Almighty Orgasm is not the be all end all of life, any more than cheeseburgers or beer are.
Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate the occaisional humor and insight of your blog, but underlying it all is a bitter and spiteful (almost demonic) sneer toward things that have the potential to be Good: love, marriage, monogamy, and sexual fidelity. I challenge you to reconsider this a bit.
Oh yeah, and don’t worry so much about the fundies (you have almost a liberal’s cartoonish nightmares about them), they are but a tiny minority who is reacting in extreme ways to a truly dysfunctional and chaotic world.
Keep up the interesting work.
Racer X said:
Brandon,
Thanks for reading my blog and I appreciate your comment. Let me respond as best I can.
Yes, I do understand and acknowledge that there are plenty of men out there who desire to be in a lifelong, loving and monogamous relationship. I have never really written anything in opposition to such men or their desires. Actually, I have written in the past about the beauties of married eros. That it can be profound and ultimately fulfilling has never been a serious contention of mine.
As far as being sociopathic in my love of sexual pleasure, I would not really characterize myself as such. I am rather perhaps a bit schizophrenic. A lot of what I write on are my own struggles with sexual and spiritual desires and my internal contradictions as a result. This is not a finished product on my part; rather, it is a work in progress. I continue to evolve on these matters. I write about sex most of the time, because, well, that is what I want to write about. Therefore my posts are usually fairly sexual. I don’t think this is a sinister thing or a moral failing. For me sexual pleasure can be a spiritual, even a religious like experience. It is interesting that you raise this point, so I think I will write more on this.
I do have an animus towards religious fundamentalism, whether it Christian, Islamic or whatever. I consider them a threat to liberty. People who act in the name of God are often the most dangerous. I have also learned that religious scruples towards can be quite destructive. Although the fundies may be a tiny minority, they have been able to influence the political and religious realm in ways that are too important to ignore.
Again, I don’t think I have a demonic sneer towards the goodness of marriage, love, fidelity, etc. As I said, I have written in the past on the goodness of these things. For those who want this, there is nothing wrong with that. My argument is that not everyone is meant to fit into these traditional paradigms. I myself prefer a variety of women. Writing about the thrill of sexual variety is something I enjoy doing. I will admit that I do use hyperbole at times when writing about sexual issues, but I tend to do that for effect.
Again, thanks for the comments and I appreciate you reading my blog!
Southern Man said:
@Brandon…hmmm, I just don’t see much sneering here, just a lot of good red-pill common sense and interesting history (the recent posts on the history of Catholic attitudes towards sex were particularly good) and terrific pics. You’re on my blogroll and I try to check in every other day or so, since that’s about what your posting frequency seems to be.
Also, loved the story in this post. It’s nice to know that such encounters can actually happen; it gives me hope.
Racer X said:
Southern Man,
Thanks for the support! And yes, such encounters as that do give us hope!