My dear and lovely—,
A woman needs to be submissive. Women crave a strong man. What most men don’t understand, is that most woman crave a primal, visceral fuck. I can imagine you, my dear, crave a strong man. Does your boyfriend not do it for you? Does your husband no longer stimulate you? Do you have contempt for his frightened, fawning worship of you? I know how it is. I have heard this from my many lovers. They love to complain about their boring boyfriends and husbands to me. He cannot say or do anything without looking at you for approval. He fears your every move, your every word, your every silly little emotional outburst, all calculated by you to see just how much you can get away with. You see the fear in his eyes when he looks at you, like some frightened little boy wanting to please his mother, and when you see that fear, the weakness in his eyes, you despise him. When he fucks you, with his big belly, soft man boobs, and tiny penis, you long for the feeling of a true man, a real man of strength and power and danger.
Yes, my dear, your life is quite acceptable by social standards: you have your house, your car, your stable relationship, your boring and tedious job, and perhaps you even have your children, whom you do truly love, but something is still missing. You miss the thrill of danger, the rush of the forbidden, the spark of the imagination. You once had these things in your life, as you were free to be fucked by all sorts of men, whenever and wherever you desired, but now you no longer have that. No, now you have a rather mundane and predictable life, a life of sex few times a month with a man who gets on top of you and slobbers all over you and you wish it were over as soon as it starts, a man for whom you must lube up your dry pussy with k-y just to allow his limpid penis to enter you. When he is done and rolls over and falls asleep and keeps you awake half the night with his disgusting snoring, you think you might actually hate him and that imprisonment in which you now live. Yes, you once thought you loved this man, and perhaps you once did, but now, after the natural cycle of some years has passed, you feel something strange within you, a longing for something more, and that strange thing that you long for is the ancient call of nature for you to be inseminated with different sperm, so you can help contribute to the genetic diversity of the species. It is the call of nature and all women feel it at one time or another.
And this is where you crave, seek, and are overcome by the dominant man, the man who wants to dominate you, and treat you like the bitchy, fickle little brat that you are.
This is where Racer X and men like him comes in…
Yes, my dear, I will dominate you. All I want to do is fuck you, without expectations, without ties, without the societal chains that bind you in a standard relationship. This is my specialty. Men such as myself are not common. We are the men who have spurned marriage, family and all the shackles of that life to live in perfect freedom, to pursue the delights of sexual variety with as many women as possible in our lives. We want to live in freedom, without hypocrisy, enjoying the world of sexuality openly and without secret. Most men are incapable of these things. Most men need to be part of a family, to be accepted by society, to live by the normal rules of behavior. And most women, even though they marry them, find most of these men boring. And a bored woman is a woman eventually ripe for seduction.
Men such as myself do not spurn love; no, we rejoice in the power of love. We are the great romantics. What we spurn are the traditional shackles of marriage. We cannot be caged. A man who recognizes that early on, admits it, and avoids the mistake of a marital prison will be happier in the long run. Many of the great men have actually been this way: artists, writers, musicians, generals, explorers, statesmen, and others, the men who build, create and discover things, and we see in their lives a contempt for the mundane and a love of the unusual and exotic. Even when married, they enjoyed the pleasures of affairs. Why? Because one woman was not enough. Their mistake was only to be married to a woman who did not understand this. If so, they often led secret lives, and, when discovered, suffered some sort of disgrace.

The artist’s studio is often a place of sexual pleasures and exploration…and women respond to such situations.
Not me. No. I love finding the woman who craves danger and freedom. Most do. I believe in honesty. Admitting that one woman is never enough, needing to spread your seed among as many as possible, so to speak; giving pleasure to as many as you can, and being free to pursue this, is a better way of life than being the man trapped in a loveless marriage with a controlling wife who does not understand your sexuality and only seeks to make you miserable. This is not to say that many men are not happy in their marriages, they are; but men such as myself were not meant to be constrained by such forces. Know thyself, as Socrates used to say.
Women seek and are attracted to masculine strength, the way men are attracted to and seek feminine softness. And dominance is one of the most pure and distilled form of masculine strength. The woman wants to be controlled in bed. She wants to be tied up and fucked mercilessly, to feel her entire being filled with the power of a true man. Yes, spank her hot ass, fuck her brains out, show her what true desire and passion is, let her feel those things she has not felt in a long time, perhaps ever, only let her feel something, and she will come back for more, her pussy drenched and hungry to be filled, her skin tingling with the anticipation of your firm hand. Show her danger and delight. Let her imagine what the next fuck session will be like. As a man, do not reveal too much of yourself though; you must remain a mystery, a powerful drug for most women. Power, dominance, mystery, sexual passion, these are the things that penetrate to the innermost core of the feminine being, that touch her in ways that few other things can.
I love sexual variety. I need more than one woman. Each woman is different, each one feels different, some moan, some scream, others are quiet when you fuck them, but all enjoy the delights of sexual pleasure. Helping a woman discover her sexual desires, to feel sexual passion for the first time, is a delight. Firmly taming a bitchy woman into submission is an even greater delight.
And so now, my dear, I shall move on to the love of disciplining you. A woman needs to be disciplined. Her ass needs to be spanked. She needs to feel a bit of pain. She needs to be tied up and fucked and told she is a little slut, at least every now and then. The next day she will love her man all the more for it. When you pound her with your hard cock, she will scream in pleasure, in the pleasure of knowing she is being fucked by a man who is a man and a free man that she cannot control in the way she controls others. And that is a challenge to her. And women love a sexual challenge. Women always love and get wet for the man they cannot have.
But now I must get to work. At the moment I have a woman waiting in my bed to be fucked by me; she is eager and whining and I have to teach her the art of sexual patience and anticipation, so I must continue this letter to you another time….
zorro said:
Sweeeeeeet!
Nestorius said:
This is it!
Woman said:
I have to admit I found this post very fun to read. I spent the few minutes reading it havinng put down my lunch and chuckling at some of your words and agreeing with the other. Sometimes both at the same time.
The biggest part I agree with you on though… is where you say today’s men are not as strong as they once were. Very true.
Butterfly Flower said:
Racer X, this is one of your best posts!
The woman wants to be controlled in bed. She wants to be tied up and fucked mercilessly, to feel her entire being filled with the power of a true man.
Women want men who are uninhibited; men who are willing to act upon their primitive, raw sexual desires. I think there’s nothing more unappealing than a man who actively suppresses his natural sexual urges [society/religion has created a generation of sexually constipated men who are only interested in vanilla sex].
…I’m one of the rare ladies inclined to dominatrix tendencies [although I’m a switch]; I couldn’t be with a man who’s frightened by my kinkiness. What if I want to “shibari” it up, and the guy is too scared to tie a knot?
I think “Game” works so well in the bedroom, because female frigidness is often a reflection of male frigidness. That’s why frigid devout Christian women turn into absolute horny sluts when they’re with an experienced lover [I’m sure Racer X knows this all too well, since he often plays the role of experienced lover ;)].
sexuallifeofawife said:
Great post! Humor in places and lots of controversy of course – but much of it so true…
I’ve always flirted with men I’m interested in in a kind of goading teasing way to see if they can rise to the bait and better me.
I adore my man oh so much more since his confidence has grown and he does exactly what he wants with me…
Kaziklu said:
One of the best articles I’ve ever read anywhere.
Racer X said:
Woman,
Thanks, I am glad you enjoyed it. Then again, giving you pleasure is always a pleasure….
And yes, there are few too cavemen today, especially for women such as yourself, as you are well aware.
Racer X said:
Butterfly,
It is nice to hear from you again! And I am glad you enjoyed the post.
“Women want men who are uninhibited; men who are willing to act upon their primitive, raw sexual desires.”
Yes, quite true.
“I couldn’t be with a man who’s frightened by my kinkiness.”
Oh yes, I like a girl who is kinky! The kinkier the better…
“That’s why frigid devout Christian women turn into absolute horny sluts when they’re with an experienced lover [I’m sure Racer X knows this all too well, since he often plays the role of experienced lover ;)”
Haha…yes, one of my favorite things is to turn a shy, timid girl into horny slut…at least for one night. An experienced lover knows how to do these things with the right finesse.
Racer X said:
SophiaX
Thanks for commenting again.
“I’ve always flirted with men I’m interested in in a kind of goading teasing way to see if they can rise to the bait and better me.”
I bet your are quite the lovely little flirt…
“I adore my man oh so much more since his confidence has grown and he does exactly what he wants with me…”
Yes, as you here you show, women love a man who is confident sexually and not afraid to show that in the bedroom, or out of the bedroom too.
Racer X said:
Kaziklu,
Thanks for the comment and I am glad you enjoyed it!
Woman said:
“Woman,
Thanks, I am glad you enjoyed it. Then again, giving you pleasure is always a pleasure….
And yes, there are few too cavemen today, especially for women such as yourself, as you are well aware.”
Mister Caveman;
I seemed to have lost the reply button!!!!
There are way too few cavemen these days. And I totally blame women and the “feminist movement” (after the 70’s it became like constipation no longer a movement I tell you).
I like and adore strong men who challenge me. Who stand up to me and have no problems from time to time reminding me I am a woman and not an equal. For men and women will never be equal because we are built differently, think different, observe differently… we are different for a reason. And in our differences we just literally cannot be equal.
It seems many men these days are what I dub, “alpha wussies”. I like my alpha males, and not the “alpha wussies”. They are few and far between.
It seems that with all the estrogen in the water supply, women wanting more sensitive men… that is exactly what has happened. The Death of the Alpha Male.
w
PS- I am still on the fence about you Mister Caveman…
Racer X said:
Woman,
How about I pull you off that fence, bend you over, and give you what you need…
Woman said:
Mister Caveman;
I need a new sex toy. One that doesn’t mind being used or using me. Rough. Gentle. Hard. Fast. Slow. Demanding. Urgent. In countless positions, in countless fantasies fleshing out into reality… This is what I need. OH!!! And a bed warmer.
Do you know where I might post this add or suggest one that might fit my requirements?
Regards;
w
Racer X said:
Woman,
I shall give this quite a bit of thought, and perhaps even a post…
I understand your needs.
Woman said:
Well I am glad someone does!!!! I’m still confused about them all!!! YAY for posts!!!
Racer X said:
Woman,
Trust me, Racer X will help you become less confused about what your true desires and passions are, especially once I yank you off that fence and bend you over for a proper lesson in discipline. After that, you will begin to have more clarity on different matters…
Woman said:
Oh but darling Mister Caveman… I am on no fence. Never have been. In my mind I am already bent over that fence… it’s the you I have of you in my mind that is dancing along the fence!!!
Racer X said:
My dear Woman,
No, I am not on the fence. I am rather behind you, while you are bent over in front of the fence, holding on to the fence with your hands, enjoying the inimitable pleasure of a good, hard, violent fuck, so hard and violent that it is shaking the fence.
H.H. said:
Racer X, You might like this: mysexlifewithlola.com
HH
Racer X said:
H.H.,
Thanks, I will definitely check it out!
Sami said:
I love spanking, but I think if one woman isn’t enough for you maybe because of you can’t keep satisfy one woman as a long time ;), The XYY man’s manner is not enough for attracting women!
7man said:
@Sami
Do you know that a woman is more attractive when she is articulate and makes a bit of sense?
Sami said:
@ 7man:
I’m not sure,I guess so…
Amanda said:
Just came across your blog, after looking for artworks of men spanking women. Great blog, love it. I’m new to spanking and the man taking complete control, it use to be quite equal in the bedroom. But I do prefer the man to take control. I also like my man to be strong and not be scared of taking control of a situation in general. My husbans is a stron man who takes care of me. I want the man who I’m with to be a real man. Don’t get me wrong I want the gentle side too, and both together is very sexy. I find that a real strong man has both, doesnt mind showing how much he loves his women but also will have the strength to take care of her and tell her what she needs to hear not what he thinks she wants to hear. Hate bull shit of any kind
Amanda said:
bloody typing mistakes grrrr
Racer X said:
Amanda,
Thanks for the comment. Yes, I think many women share the same desires as you do, they want a man that is both strong and powerful but can be gentle at the same time. If a man has a combination of these traits, he can be a good lover.
And don’t worry about the typos…haha…if it were not for spell check I would be totally screwed when it comes to spelling.
LokoKita said:
“The woman wants to be controlled in bed. She wants to be tied up and fucked mercilessly, to feel her entire being filled with the power of a true man.”
Such. A. Truth. Reminds me of the time I took my wife’s best friend for myself.
A prospective man all need be honest that this is also what he wants to give, then he will get what he wants, just like men like us always do. Though I skip on the tie up, I get a little impatient. I just need my size and strength to do the overpowering.
Racer X said:
Haha…yes, the best friend thing! I once had a situation like that. The girl I was involved with told her best friend about our hot sex and the best friend, stuck with a dull sex life, first became jealous, envious and then overly desirious of our sex. Eventually she managed to get me at her house alone and we fucked. But the girl I was seeing at the time suspected something and got into a big cat fight with her “best friend”. Then she confronted me about it, but when I told her I did not want to see her anymore, she became extremely aroused and we ended up with some intense, angry and passionate sex. She later confessed that the fact I fucked her best friend really turned on. “I get so wet just thinking about it,” she told me. “I don’t know why.”
Why? Like all women she instinctively wants and demands alpha sperm. This is how our species survives.
I love women…!
LokoKita said:
I know! It seems that the more a man is able to propagate his alpha male sperm, the more and more women will come to him wanting to have it.
It went on until I was caught… mad for a while, but later got them both.
I love women too!