Recently on CL’s blog this post on Liz Phair appeared: http://curmudgeonloner.wordpress.com/2011/12/02/liz-phair-and-game/#comment-1225
Now I have never listened to her, or even really knew who she was, but from what I can gather from CL’s post, in addition to being a good musician, she is a fairly open women when it comes to sexuality. I will admit I will probably never really listen to her, seeing I really don’t like chick music, but her sexuality is intriguing. A woman who writes a song about “Hot White Cum” is someone who deserves a post on this blog.
Liz Phair is 44 years old, and she still looks great. She is still hot and sexy. This just shows that women do not have to age poorly, if they take care of themselves. She also shows how women, as they grow older, become more confident and comfortable in their sexuality. Young women may have the superior physical powers, the more lithe, supple bodies, but too often they are basket cases of insecurities and low self esteem. Plus, since they know every man wants to get in their pants, they often have an overly exalted sense of sexual entitlement and will use that in the most malicious and immature ways. Many also simply suck in bed, often due to their lack of experience, insecurities, and poor body images. And psychologically, many are simply immature. I do enjoy the intellectual stimulation of a grown women after I have fucked her, after all. How much life experience does a younger women bring into a relationship? What can you really talk about with her? Now not all younger women are like this, I have certainly known some, and still know some, who are not, and I enjoy them as women, but they are mostly the great exception to the rule.
For the most part, women are not allowed to enjoy their sexuality in our world. If they do, they are shamed by their sisters as being sluts. Many men also shame women who are sexual. Religion oppression just adds to this (recently I just saw a story about a woman in Afghanistan who was jailed for….being raped. That is right, someone raped her, and she was accused of adultery and jailed. Oh, the joys the multi-culturalism and theocracy all wrapped into one!!!). I think however the highly sexual woman tends to get more grief from other women than from men, since other women see them as competition, or potential threats to the man they have. But what the slut shamers do not understand is this: if a woman is highly sexed, and is good in bed, and good and kind to her man, most men are not going to stray.. A highly sexual woman who loves you is often too good a find to risk. Perhaps many men do not understand this, but many do. I myself love highly sexual women, because I myself am highly sexual, and need a woman who is the same. Most slut shamers, as well the religiously pure, tend to be the more frigid types anyway.
As far as Liz Phair, I think this beauty needs to be praised with a few nice photos every now and then on this blog. After all, beautiful women comfortable in their sexuality are one of my favorite pastimes.