
Paul Avril (1843-1928): French artist who painted many erotic works which were quite graphic for their time.
Sex dreams are strange things. Today I took a nap in the late afternoon and during this nap I had quite a sexual dream. It involved a girl I barely know. We were sitting down and talking, and before long we were closer, and then somehow the dream turned sexual. She gave me a blowjob and it seemed all so real. When I came, I came in huge amounts and all over her, which she loved. It is so strange, how real sex dreams can seem. When I awoke I was disappointed because it was only a dream! I have been incredibly horny ever since.
I wonder how it is that people whom we barely know can leave such a strong impression on us that we would have sexual dreams about them. What are the strange workings of the inner mind that produce such delights? Sex dreams are both a pleasure and a curse: a pleasure while you are having them because they seem so real, sometimes even leading to orgasm, but a curse because you wake up and realize they were just a dream. But the thing that always amazes me about sex dreams, and this is common for me, is how someone you barely know, or don’t even know at all, can become part of a sex dream. What is it? It is the hidden chemical attractions at work all around us that inspire such a seemingly random person to become the participant in a sexual dream? Is it something even deeper and more mysterious? You can meet a person for only a brief moment, and yet somehow they enter your mind and thought process and eventually become part of a dream. Strange. And there are no answers for this.
I also find that when I am in a more celibate mode of life my sex dreams become stronger, more vivid, more erotic, even stranger. When I masturbate a lot my sex dreams are virtually non-existent. When I am with a lover or in a relationship my dreams usually involve her. Again, dreams are strange but fascinating things. The above image by the French artist Paul Avril captures something of the phantasmagoria of unbridled sexual dreams. Often sexual dreams are unbridled, coming as they do from the inner recesses of our subconscious minds. For all of us, strange and forbidden things lurk there, waiting to be released, through dreams or otherwise.
Well I hope tonight for some more sex dreams, even hotter than this one!
Thag Jones said:
A lot of the time people in my dreams have no faces. I don’t know what that says about me! Or else, they morph constantly from one face to another, or they’re people I only know in the dream, not in real life, because I can’t identify them when I wake up.
I don’t have a lot of sex dreams but I am at least happy to say that I very rarely dream about any of my exes anymore – that can get damn annoying! When I have sexual dreams they often end up involving more than one person, which isn’t something I’ve ever done nor do I plan on doing in reality…. I’ve probably said too much. 😛
Racer X said:
Thag,
Haha. I always knew you were a really dirty girl underneath it all. Your dreams prove that.
Yes, dreams about ex’s can be particularly haunting. Some of the hardest dreams deal with relationships from your past, especially those that ended badly. The dream seems real, then you wake up and feel sadness over what seemed real but is not.
Thag Jones said:
I have never denied that my mind is a gutter. 😉 But I’m looking at the stars, as Oscar Wilde would say.
aias said:
Good to see you back from your pilgrimage to the monastery!
Racer X said:
Aias..
Haha…thanks.
Well I may have left the monastery for now but the monastery has not left me.
Thag Jones said:
Damn you…. I’m blaming you for my having a dream about an ex last night! 😛 At least it wasn’t a sex dream (thank you Jesus).
Racer X said:
Thag,
Haha…sorry about that.
Next time you should have a dream about me. That one will definitely be a sex dream.
Thag Jones said:
Seeing as I don’t know what you look like, maybe you’re one of those faceless people in my dreams!
Racer X said:
Thag,
Haha…Well I hope I am not too faceless.
Perhaps we need to change that sometime?
Thag Jones said:
Are you saying you’ll send me a pic? 😉
brightstormyday said:
I think David DM is a pretty cool guy. Eh just thinks dirty thoughts and doesn’t afraid of anything.
Racer X said:
Thag,
Oh, anything is possible. I think we should become lovers, at least for starters…haha…
And listen to Stormy, she has good judgment on these matters! She is wise beyond her years!
gael said:
I think one of the things that really won me over with my husband, apart from his persistence and overall charms were the sexy dreams I had about him. I had several sexy dreams about him when we first met. I stopped having them when we started dating because I was having sex with him for real…
Racer X said:
Gael,
Yes, it is interesting how our dreams of someone may vanish when we actually have them around in a physical sense! Still, dreams have a strange way of manifesting themselves in the most unusual ways. It is also interesting, and sometime haunting, how we can still dream about people years after we were involved with them and they left our lives.