Unlike many others in the manosphere, I love slutty women. Of course, you may be wondering what I mean by “slutty”. By slutty, I mean a woman who loves sex, has a high sex drive, and is not afraid to experiment. I love a girl who has fucked lots of guys. Why? Because then I know most likely she is a perv, a nympho, and will not be uptight in bed. I also know that when women find me, or I find them, I can satisfy them in way that few other men can, and so I know they will keep coming back for more. What is my secret? Well, I am not sure really, I can only testify to what works best for me. But I suppose it is a combination of passion, intensity, feeling, romance, and love, the mixing of the animal, mental, physical, emotional and the spiritual. Chicks go for this. It is not a calculated thing on my part; rather, it is simply my personality. I had never even heard of “game” until a few years ago, but before then I was always successful in seducing women, and having women make themselves available to be seduced, without any kind of plan of action at all. It was all natural. I suppose I was lucky to be blest with the right combination of personality and physical qualities. Plus women can sense high sexuality. A former lover once told me how she was interested in me long before I really noticed her, and how she could tell I would be good in bed before we hardly even knew each other. As she said, “I could see it in your eyes.” I remember I would pepper our early, innocent conversations, long before we became intimate, with humorous sexual innuendo and references. Little did I know at the time that her giggling and laughing responses were making her panties wet, as she later confessed.
But back to slutty women…one of worst things in life is to be with an uptight, rigid, frigid woman, someone who is hypercritical, dislikes sex, or who constantly makes you feel like you are walking on eggshells. I have been with a few women like that. They are not fun; rather, they are oppressive and constant source of friction. Fortunately, none of them lasted, so I was not stuck to endure a lifetimes of harpy-like torture. After such experiences, I would always find my ways back into the lovely sensuality of the slutty girl. After going from the frigid bitch to the happy slut, I would always feel like someone who had just crossed a barren desert to reach and dive head first into a lush, refreshing oasis of fleshly pleasures.
I always enjoy meeting girls who are as abandoned as I am when it comes to sex. I especially love meeting those girls who may be appear like the good little girl next door type on the outside, but are raging sex craved nymphomaniacs on in the inside, with all sort of dark and dirty sexual secrets waiting to be confessed. Women love it too, when you are not afraid to tap into their inner whore, in a non-critical way, and let them express it, without becoming jealous or angry or possessive. Most men can’t handle a high sexed girl; for me, I can’t handle a low sexed girl. I always enjoy meeting someone who is as filthy and dirty as me, who wants to tell me about all the guys she has fucked while we are fucking. And, contrary to what most people might believe, most women really enjoy talking about the guys they have fucked, in detail; it turns them on immensely to recall their forbidden sexual secrets and desires and I have made more than one girl wet and horny by listening to her sexual stories; one girl told me later, after I had pinned her on the bed, fully clothed at the start of our first love making session, and whispered in her ear, “I want to hear all of your fantasies and dirty secrets,” how wet that made her, and indeed, we did fuck intensely that night, and many nights afterward too. I also love a girl who enjoys bringing another girl into the bedroom with us on occasion, if not more. But I suppose that could be its own post. I love a sexual girl, a girl who loves to masturbate, fantasize, read erotica or watch porn or enjoys seeing naked women and who will do just about anything. Being such a sexual animal myself, an unreformed caveman and beast, (true to my Taurus sign), it is always a pleasure to be involved with a like minded woman.
I love meeting them. I love slutty girls!
Lushfun said:
i need to get out more
Ray Sawhill said:
Well put!
I don’t fully understand the hostility a lot of the Game dudez have to adventurous and lusty girls, do you?
Racer X said:
I think a lot of them are guys who once idealized women, then had their hearts crushed by some girl, and are now trying to never put themselves in that position again. Their disillusionment at the reality of female sexuality informs their outlook. Many men never quite come to terms with the fact that women are sexual creatures too. They want to fuck a slutty girl, or a girl who loves sex, but don’t like the fact that slutty girls exists, or that any girl is quite capable of slutty behavior.
I like to try to accept life as it is, and enjoy as much of it as I can, while I can.
Slutty and lusty girls make life more enjoyable.
Ray Sawhill said:
“I like to try to accept life as it is, and enjoy as much of it as I can, while I can.”
Words to live by.
Phoenix said:
David DM,
Got a few questions. What’s your body language consist of that gets the girls thinking you’re highly sexual? Are you a touchy person upon meeting a new girl?
Or perhaps it’s the pheromones aka high testosterone level that is sensed?
And lastly, how soon do you talk about sex, or share sex stories, with a girl? An hour after building rapport and comfort?
Your tips would be greatly appreciated!
Racer X said:
Phoenix,
I don’t really have any self conscious body language. I suppose relaxed and confident is how I would describe myself. Being slightly aloof also helps too.
I am definitely not a touchy person when I meet someone. I am not that by nature either, but I also think most girls don’t want to be touched by someone they don’t know very well. You have to careful about entering someone’s personal space too soon.
I think girl’s can sense high testosterone on someone. I definitely have high testosterone, so that helps me in those situations.
I don’t talk about sex too soon with a girl. You have to know someone at least a little bit, and get a sense for what their sensibilities are, to introduce that. It really all depends on the girl and situation. Each one is different.
I think the key to all this is simply to be yourself, be authentic, be confident, don’t be afraid to walk away, don’t come across as needy or desperate, be patient, and you will have success with women.
Phoenix said:
gotchya. thanks!
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Kathy said:
“I want to hear all of your fantasies and dirty secrets,” how wet that made her, and indeed, we did fuck intensely that night, and many nights afterward too. I also love a girl who enjoys bringing another girl into the bedroom with us on occasion, if not more. ”
Sigh, I really find it hard to reconcile your attitude to sex and women and your attitude to Catholicism..
God gave us all a free will, and of course you may do as you wish..
However your actions as detailed above are anathema to Christian virtue and chastity..
One cannot serve two masters..
Look, I myself have struggled against sins of a sexual nature, at different times in my life. Before meeting my second husband, I masturbated two or three times a day. (This went on for about a year ) I knew in my heart that it was wrong.. But I was weak.. I suppose I could have slept with a man, I had plenty of opportunities, but I knew that was wrong too, and didn’t want to compound my sins.
Now I am married (to a man with a high sex drive) so I no longer have that problem.
This sounds like preaching I know, though it’s not meant to be.
I know that you have poured cold water on marriage for you..elsewhere, but really marriage to a like minded woman would be a good thing.
You seem a contradiction in terms to me. One the one hand you speak so eloquently about the spiritual with regards to your Catholic faith and the sacraments, then at the other end of the spectrum you engage in debauched sex.
It just doesn’t add up..
It’s not like you are in a LTR, for instance.
Why bother with God at all, because you are deliberately and conciously disobeying his laws? (Just posing the question, here..)
In other words, this is not about weakness.. It’s about choice. You have no choice about whether you wake up in the morning with a “fat” (hard on for you Americans) or not.. that is certainly true.
You do however, have a choice as to whether you sleep with a slutty woman or engage in a threesome..
Just trying to work you out Racer.. I have read your comments over a couple of years (on various blogs.). Most of them of an extremely sexual nature..
Why do I care?
I don”t know, but I DO..
I can’t help but like you. You don’t have a mean bone in your body, and you seem like an affable kind of guy.
Hey there’s hope for you yet. 😉
Racer X said:
Kathy,
Thanks for your comments. Yes, I am a contradiction. Part of this blog is stating openly some of the thoughts that I have on these matters. Why, I am not sure. I think a lot of people of faith have these types of thoughts, but are afraid to express them. For me it is somewhat cathartic. Plus I just have a filthy mind.
But I understand what you are saying. The extremes of some of my posts are a complete contradiction which cannot be sustained. Clearly, some of my more outrageous posts are completely out of line with Christian virtues.
My life is often a struggle between deep sexual desires and deep religious longing. Often these struggles have remained unresolved, or they evolve into an ongoing back and forth between sin and repentance, sin and repentance. Desire and eroticism are a part of life, I believe they were created by God. How I can healthily integrate into my life is something I am still figuring out. Getting married would be the best option, and perhaps that will still happen for me, but it is not guaranteed. Finding a good wife is not as easy as going to the grocery store to buy a quart of milk; and I refuse to get married, simply to be married.
However, recently over the past few months I have been feeling a deeper need for God in my life, and wondering whether I should continue with the more sexually outrageous part of this blog. I am still working these things out and plan to write on them as they occur; but suffice it to say, I have recently gained a renewed appreciation for the power of prayer, of leading a certain kind of life, and abstaining from certain things. If happiness is any indication, then not having sex when you are not married is a good thing, at least for me. Most of the sex I have had in my life, while thrilling and exciting, has been ultimately unfulfilling. I find I am always fulfilled when I have God in my life. Celibacy has its virtues. But celibacy does not lessen my deep sexual needs, so there is always that tension.
I think the goal is to follow Christ as best I can and learn to live with the nature that God gave me. It is an ongoing process, hence some of the contradictions here.
Thanks for reading though, and again, thanks for your comments. I value others’ experiences in these sexual matters too. It helps me to hear what others go through with regard to faith and sex.
brightstormyday said:
I love reading your struggles with faith and God. I love how Christians tell you,”Why bother with God at all?” etc.
Listen, Kathy. I was taught that if you wake up with a hardon, well, that’s a sin. If you hate someone and think of harming them or think ill things of them, that’s a sin. If you lust after another and imagine engaging in wild animalistic sex with them, that’s a sin.
Every day, you sin. If not in action, in thought. Nothing about us, as humans, is pure. Nothing about us, as humans, is perfect.
When you see someone like racerx, struggling with God, struggling between faith and chastity and extreme lust…you should pray for them. You should work harder on them. Because they aren’t feeling enough of God’s love.
Instead, you condemn them. You judge them. You preach. You tell them they might as well not bother. You DISCOURAGE them from seeking THE LORD. You are allowing another person to stray from God. You are allowing another person to be lost to the Devil.
For what? To boost your own ego?
Kathy said:
Do you feel any better after that rant?
I think you have a comprehension problem Mandy..
I was genuinely interested in what Racer had to say. In what he thought. I meant no offence and he took none.
Far from condemning him, personally, I was just asking in all honesty where he was coming from. Because I was a little confused.
He understood what I meant and answered my query in a polite and dignified manner.
We are all sinners, Mandy. I have never at any time put myself up on a pedestal.. If I did I would not have admitted to masturbating. (which is something that I was ashamed of) Nobody is perfect. Least of all me.
We just have to keep praying and trying.
In the last part of your fire and brimstone sermon 😉 you said that I should pray for Racer.. Lol! I mentioned him in my prayers about an hour ago. I pray for lots of people. Family friends bloggers..
Did you miss the part where I said that I actually liked Racer?
Do you think that I would even bother to comment if I thought that Racer was an evil man who was going “to be lost to the devil ” as you so succinctly put it?
There is a very deeply spiritual side to the Racer that I find interesting and intriguing..
Of course he struggles.. We all struggle. It is as Racer says an ongoing process.
You accuse me of discouraging him from seeking the Lord..
On the contrary, I was just trying to draw him out..trying to understand the apparent contridictions.. with a sincere interest in his views and feelings..
Btw, Mandy, I’ll add you to my praying list..
Please pray for me too. I need all the help that I can get 🙂
Rebekah said:
There is a very deeply spiritual side to the Racer that I find interesting and intriguing..
Me too!
Please pray for me too. I need all the help that I can get
Me too!
brightstormyday said:
Kathy, you sound incredibly passive aggressive in your comments. You begin with with statements like,”Why bother with God at all?” “your beliefs are anathema,” “one cannot serve two masters…” to me you would say things like,”I think you have a comprehension problem…” and “fire and brimstone sermon….”
then you add things like,”Hey, there’s hope for you yet” and “I’ll add you to my praying list.”
I don’t know what to make of it. It just comes off as passive aggressive.
You probably aren’t intentionally doing so. I had an English teacher who would quote William Blake and say,”Damn braces, bless relaxes.”
He stated that it’s always best to begin kindly then state any sort of criticism. When you begin a paragraph with,”I think you have a comprehension problem,” it’s just a bit offensive, regardless of whether you mean it or not.
All the same, I will pray for you, Kathy, and you two Rebekah.
And Racer, we need to talk. I found a new fellowship! They’re coptic Orthodox and occasionally sing in Arabic, but I had, honest to goodness, the most uplifting experience tonight! I feel like I’m on a cloud.
Rebekah said:
Thanks, Mandy!
XO
brightstormyday said:
That’s an interesting emoticon. It’s eyes are crossed and it’s mouth is wide open….hmmmm
Rebekah said:
That would be interesting! If it were an emoticon.
It would be even more interesting if someone thought that and then used it on the end of his or her blog handle.
🙂 <— Emoticon!
XOXO
brightstormyday said:
Oh, I mean XD is one. It’s when your eyes are closed from laughing too hard.
xoxo
gossip girl 😉
loljkwhataterriblejoke
Racer X said:
Mandy,
I look forward to hearing about that. The Coptic Church has beautiful music. I have never been to one, but I have heard some of it on You Tube. It is interesting you would go to a Coptic Church right now, especially with what is going on in Egypt these days.
brightstormyday said:
Not a church, per se, but rather, a small fellowship with about 11 people, roughly seven being Egyptian.
Very interesting. Two of them were in Egypt recently and were telling their stories. It was amazing.
Racer X said:
Wow, that sounds great. I look forward to hearing further details. I bet the stories about Egypt were real interesting!
Thag Jones said:
Slut = high sex drive; it doesn’t follow that high sex drive = slut.
One can possess a high sex drive and also have self-control. Sluts have little ability to say no to themselves, that’s the difference.
Racer X said:
Thag,
That is a good point. It is possible to have a high sex drive but also possess self control. With self control the high sex drive becomes a manageable thing.
I know that giving in to these things without restraint can make for an unhappy existence.
commutersex said:
i’m glad you made that point that having a high sex drive and/or “being slutty” does not mean that a woman has no self control, is participating in unsafe sex or having indiscriminate sex.
i (and most of my partners) would say i have a sex drive but i am very particular about you i share myself with and as you described it’s usually somebody that attracts me with openness and willingness to share and experiment sexually.
believe it or not some men can be very uptight also….
Racer X said:
Commutersex,
Thanks for the comment. Yes, it is true that those with high sex drives, whether men or women, does not necessarily imply a lack of self control. I think the most erotic situations are the ones the flow from a natural restraint, until we finally let go in confidence that the pleasures experienced will be intense, but also safe.
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Convict Moll said:
You are too kind to us slutty girls.
Convict Moll said:
What is is about chicks kissing that you guys like so much?!